Marriage Match - Part 1 - Marriage Match Making

The term “match making” usually comes up in a discussion related to marriage. Match making is a procedure in which the bride’s Kundali is matched with the groom’s Kundali. Primarily, match making studies matching qualities (Gun Milan) and Manglik Yoga. 36 qualities are considered in match making. Atleast 18 of your and your partner’s qualities should match each other. Your marriage will be more fruitful if more qualities match with each other. In the same way, Manglik Yoga is studied. If one among both of them is manglik then match making is not fruitful.

In this webcast, we will talk about something different than what we talked before. Usually, after matching qualities and studying Manglik Yogas, couples still face some problems in their marriage. In this webcast, we will try to understand the cause of these problems.

Position of Planets according to Houses

Today, we will try to discuss marriage match making from a different perspective. Match making on the basis of house is also very important. Every house in your Kundali is important. Moreover, each of the nine planets plays a specific role in your life.

When we talk about match making, it is important to determine that house in both Kundali are not 6th, 8th or 12th from each other. Sixth house is associated with debts and enemies. Eighth house is associated with destruction. Similarly, twelfth house is associated with expenses. Hence, these three are considered to be inauspicious.

For instance, you should check the house in which Sun is present in the groom’s Kundali. Now, check the house in which Sun is present in the bride’s Kundali.

Let us assume that Sun is in the second house in the groom’s Kundali and ninth house in the bride’s Kundali. They will form Shadashtak Yoga, which is considered to be inauspicious. Moreover, Sun in both Kundalis should not be in 6th, 8th or 12th house from each other. It is also considered inauspicious.

In the same way, we will study all the nine planets. Match making will yield positive results if more planets are in auspicious houses from each other in both Kundalis.

Position of Planets according to Astrological Signs

Now, we will talk about match making on the basis of astrological signs. This procedure is similar to what we talked about in the previous slide.

In this procedure, we match your and your partner’s Kundalis on the basis of the position of astrological signs. We study the signs in which different planets reside.

Basically, we have to see in which signs a particular planet is present in both Kundalis. For instance, if Jupiter is in Taurus sign in the groom’s Kundali and in Libra sign in the bride’s Kundali, we will study the relationship between both these signs.

Both these signs are 6th or 8th from each other. In other words, Libra sign is in 6th house from Taurus. Similarly, Taurus sign is in 8th house from Libra. Hence, both of these are quite different from each other.

In the same way, we will study other planets and their positions in different signs. If a planet resides in two signs which are 6th, 8th or 12th from each other, the relationship will not be auspicious. Match making will yield better results if the relationships between more number of signs are auspicious.

Matching Ascendant

In this slide, we will talk about your and your partner’s Ascendant. Your Kundali’s Ascendant should not be the same as your partner. For instance, if your Ascendant is Aries, your partner’s Ascendant should not be Aries.

If your Ascendants are same, you will have the same kind of weaknesses. If you are an aggressive person, your partner will also be aggressive. Hence, there will always be problems in your married life.

For instance, if both your Ascendants are Fire elements, both of you will be aggressive and rush into decisions. At times, such decisions will prove to be disastrous.

If both your Ascendants are air elements, both of you will lack a compromising nature. You and your partner will live in fantasies. You will not be realistic. You will think a lot over everything in life. You will also lack decision-making qualities.

If both your Ascendants are water elements, both of you will be very emotional. Every decision you take will be based on your feelings and emotions. Such decisions may prove to be wrong sometimes.

If both your Ascendants are Earth elements, both of you will have a compromising nature. You will think a lot before taking any step. This may be your biggest flaw. Both of you will strive for stability in life. Hence, you will be unable to adjust to changes and new surroundings.

Other Important Things to Consider

Let us tell you about some other important things related to marriage match making. It is very important to study your and your partner’s Kundalis separately. All the individual Yogas in your Kundali should also be studied before actual match making. Analyzing your Kundali may tell you about your bad habits and traits. Thus, you will be able to bring some changes in your attitude and nature.

The relationship between the Lord of Ascendant and the Lord of seventh house is extremely important. It should be thoroughly analyzed in your Kundali. For instance, if the Lord of Ascendant is in the second house and Lord of seventh house is in the third house in your Kundali. In such as situation, they are in the 12th house from each other. This is an inauspicious relationship. Thus, you will not be comfortable with your partner.

In the same way, it is considered to be extremely inauspicious if the Lord of Ascendant and the Lord of seventh house are creating Shadashtak Yoga in your Kundali.

There should not be any malefic planets in the twelfth house from Venus in your Kundali. Otherwise, your relationship may be stressed and challenging. It is also possible that you may not have a good physical relationship with your partner.

Venus plays an important role in your Janma Kundali. This planet is related to material desires. Your relationship may not be flexible if the Lord of sign in which Venus is present is in a retrograde state. For instance, if Venus is in Jupiter’s sign and Jupiter is retrograde in your Janma Kundali, you may not be much interested in relationships.

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